Nowadays it is not important for people to have regularly family meal together?
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March 20, 2019 at 7:28 am
Topic: Agree or disagree? Nowadays it is not important for people to have regularly family meals together.
Well, in fast-paced modern life, people’s jobs always come with relatively less vocation time and multiple choices of recreation, as a result, they share a getting less enjoyable moments with their families. Staying with families becomes less important and subordinate consideration. Personally, I disagree with this idea, on the contrary, having regularly family meals become more important than before.
Undeniably, families can’t help us solve some problems directly, especially the working burden and interpersonal crisis. Living in large city, adults have to face a lot of pressure. In the first place, they have to work hard in the company, otherwise they will probably be cut off because of the fierce competition causing by the younger colleagues or brilliant ones. Imagine a common white-collar employee, who have to save up for his children’s education tuition and parents’ hospital bill, he will definitely spare no effort to catch every chance to win a customer or leave a good impression on bosses on occasional dinner parties even at the cost of absenting from the family party. In the leisure time, this man would prefer to stay with friends to attend some recreation activities. Through laughing and hanging out., he could be totally relaxed and keep all terrible emotions away.
However, enjoyable time sharing with the families on dinner table should also be, and always be the delightful and encouraging moments that not only help us release our stress, but also can give us lessons about encourage and strength, attitudes and values. First of all, dinner time is a precious equal time for anyone on which time we could get along with each other just like friends, without needs to obey the school rules or comply with the superior. Owing to this harmonious atmosphere, children would like to talk about some interesting things or some problems in school with their parents, letting parents to know the real situations of their schooling. At the same time, the elder will provide some useful advice or instructions for youth, which are very important for the young’s growth. For some adults, they can also share working burden with their spouses or parents who could not only give their hands to find solutions, as well as help them establish the confidence to fight against the trouble. In this way, family member can become more intimate and harmonious, operative and tolerate. These wonderful things could all happen on a dinner table when you spend more time accompanying your families.
In a word, even in a fast-paced and fiercely competitive society, we should never lose sight of the companion time with our families , who would always be the one give us strength and encourage.
March 21, 2019 at 3:59 amApril 13, 2019 at 3:34 pmIn fast-paced modern life, people’s jobs always come with relatively less vocation time and multiple choices of recreation. As a result, they share fewer enjoyable moments with their families. However, I think that having regular family meals should become more important than before.
Undeniably, families can’t help us solve some problems directly, especially the working burden and interpersonal crisis. We could imagine an adult has to work hard in the company, otherwise he will probably be fired because of the fierce competition. Backing to daily life, he has to think about saving up for his children’s education tuition and parents’ hospital bill. Under these duties, he will definitely spare no effort to catch every chance to win a customer or leave a good impression on bosses even at the cost of absenting from the family dinner party.
However, the companion time of families around dinner table should be one of the most delightful and encouraging moments in our daily life. These enjoyable moments help us release stress and keep all the terrible emotions away. For example, I prefer searching and trying some novel and unique restaurants or various dishes with my parents as well as my brother. Through laughing and hanging out with family, I could be totally relaxed. Meanwhile, my parents could also forgot the interpersonal crisis and promotion pressure temporarily.
What’s more, dinner time is a precious time for families to get along with in equality, which provide some effective indirect ways to solve problems. Without needs to obey the school rules, children would like to talk about some school anecdotes or troubles with their parents. Away from company ordinance, adults also would like to share working crisis with their spouses or parents. In this way, the elder will provide some useful advice or instructions for youth, as well as enhance family’s confidence to handle problems. Gradually, family members can become more intimate and harmonious, operative and tolerate.
