Research indicates that the characteristics we are born with have much more influence on our personality and development than any experiences we may have in our life. Which do you consider to be the major influence?

Research indicates that the characteristics we are born with have much more influence on our personality and development than any experiences we may have in our life. Which do you consider to be the major influence?

Recently there is a discussion about which influence more on our personality and development, and the research indicates that the characteristics we born with have much more effect than any life experiences. Although the condition and environment around us play an important part in our life, The person and things we meet matters more than that.

Indeed, the things we take with have much effect on building up personalities. For instance. The poor kids are taught to be frugal while the children born in rich families even have no sense of what the money means since they don’t need to be worried about food or wear, additionally, a peace,happy family tends to nurture kids with positive life attitudes. Therefore, some characteristics we born with have effects on our personality and development to some extent.

However, it can’t be said that the rich kids would not work hard for their dreams or we are born to be an unchangeable person. even a bad-tempered person will transform to be gentle by a soft couple. As the old saying goes there is no difficulties once we set up our mind.

In my opinion. although we can’t choose the characteristics that we born with, the development and personality have a tighter connections with the experiences we get in our life. We should believe that nothing is impossible one we decided.