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  • ding
    University: Beijing normal university
    Nationality: china
    October 19, 2020 at 9:11 am

    When people are in a terrible situation, some people choose to accept it. Others try to change it. Both choices have their reasons, and here`s why.

    For acceptable people, being not anxious to an unsatisfactory job is beneficial to their mental and physical health. According to my own experience, I used to go through a bad situation during my first year in high school for study and relationship problems. But I did not accept the circumstances and always thought about changing it. As a result, I got skin healthy problem that took a long time to heal because of too much pressure. So acceptance is a way to protect yourself.

    For people trying to improve, it is the strong will that became the key to change the situation. If people accept the trouble but never take actions to recover it. The situation will not be stable. On the contrary , it will get worse. Back to myself, after I accepted the mistakes I made, I tried to handle my study and relationship in a better way. Improve the situation is inevitable.

    From my perspective, acceptance is the first step , and improvement will be the second. It is necessary that you should clam down and analysis, then we can move on.